Friday, August 2, 2024

Relationship v. Religion


 Introduction

The pitfalls of religion over a relationship between oneself and the Lord Jesus Christ of Creation must be supreme. Some people believe that religion is superior to a relationship. This author believes that a personal relationship over human-made religion becomes paramount.

Many will reject what I am saying to embrace a religious denomination, that my friend is their choice, and I respect what they believe, but I disagree with them about this choice. Religion will tie one’s hands, but a relationship sets us free.

Religion

During this stage, people in a crisis will turn to a religious denomination that comforts them. However, when this predicament ends, those same individuals who embraced religion will fall back into their old ways of life.

According to the dictionary, religion is a belief in some superhuman controlling person. This control could be why people run to faith when a catastrophe presents itself. Religion is a set of rules laid out by the founder of that religious sect, or today, we call them denominations.

List of Christian Denominations

Each has its regulations that the devotee must adhere to or face ex-communication.

James 1:26-27 says,

If anyone thinks himself to be religious and yet does not bridle his tongue but deceives his own heart, this man’s religion is worthless. Pure and undefiled religion in the sight of our God and Father is this: to visit orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself unstained by the world.

It speaks of a “Pure and undefiled religion,” but not all human-made religions are pure or undefiled. Many religions seem laced with the beliefs of the Pharisees of old, with an extensive list of “do’s and don’ts.” A “Pure and undefiled religion” is a relationship between individuals.

Relationship

According to the dictionary, a relationship is how people connect or how individuals act toward each other. When one connects with the Lord Jesus, it is not about “do’s and don’ts!” It is about how one shows one's love and respect for each other.

If we love the Lord Jesus Christ, obeying Him will be easiest. Our first task should be as the scripture teaches.

Matthew 22:37-40 says,

And He said to him, You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind. And this is the great and foremost commandment. The second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as you love yourself. These two commandments depend on the whole Law and the Prophets.

If one loves the Lord, then all else will fall into place. There is no religion here, but a relationship between God and people. There are no “do’s and don’ts” to follow in a relationship because one does it out of love.

Husband and Wife

The first relationship was between God and Adam, out of pure love. Then God created a woman, and now, a relationship was among humans, and no religion was involved here.

Ephesians 5:25, 33 says,

Husbands love their wives, just as Christ loved the Church and gave Himself up for her. Still, each individual among you must also love his wife even as he loves himself, and the wife must see that she respects her husband.

It has always been important for relationships, not the human-made religion of today. If one has love and devotion to an individual, one will do anything to make them happy.

That is why a relationship is far superior to any religion.

Family Relationships

It is all about relationships with all humans, regardless of their color.

Ephesians 6:1-9 says,

Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. Honor your father and mother (the first commandment with a promise) so it may be well with you and that you may live long on the earth. Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord. Enslaved people, be obedient to those who are your masters according to the flesh, with fear and trembling, in the sincerity of your heart, as to Christ; not by way of eyeservice, as men-pleasers, but as slaves of Christ, doing the will of God from the heart and with good will render service, as to the Lord, and not to men, knowing that whatever good thing each does, this he will receive back from the Lord, whether enslaved person or free. And masters do the same things to them and give up threatening, knowing that both their Master and yours is in heaven, and there is no partiality with Him.

The above passage is not about religion but the relationship of children toward their parents and vice versa; it is also about servants and their relationship to the master and how the master treats his servants. All healthy relationships are from the Lord and must be from the heart.

The author contends this whole passage is about relationships with other individuals. Religion will not work because it has too many rules.

The Ten Commandments

Relationships with others are so meaningful that even in God’s Commandments of Moses, most were to show how our relationship was to be with our fellow man.

Exodus 20 says,

Relationship Toward God

You shall have no other gods before me.

You shall not make idols.

You shall not take the name of the LORD your God in vain.

Remember the Sabbath day to keep it holy.

Relationship Toward Man

Honor your father and your mother.

You shall not murder.

You shall not commit adultery.

You shall not steal.

You shall not bear false witness against your neighbor.

You shall not covet.

There are more commandments towards man than God; as God shows us, it is a relationship superior to religion.

Conclusion

The relationship is far superior to any religion. Religion only translates into denominationalism. Religion, denominationalism, or whatever one wants to call it, is a tool that has caused divisions in the body of Christ called the Church. Genuine relationships bring only one closer to each other in love and devotion.

Humankind has gotten so wrapped up in religion it has forgotten people. Do not let religion rule your life; commit to a personal relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ, and see the results soar to the next level.

God has no religion with us, but He has a relationship waiting if we ask.

Sola ScripturaBy Scripture Alone

Sola Fide–By Faith Alone

Sola Gratia–By Grace Alone

Solus Christus–By Christ Alone

Soli Deo Gloria–Glory to God Alone

Copyright George L Gallant, ©2021, Updated: ©2024

New American Standard Bible: 1995 Update (La Habra, CA: The Lockman Foundation, 1995)

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